Retirement is not always what we believe it to be

Retirement is a fantastic privilege if you know what to do with it

Every day we dream to do, what we want to do, when we want to do it. But when we arrive at this possibility, we don’t know what we really want.

Retirement is the last stretch of life.

Be optimist, getting older is nothing less than a bad habit, that a busy person doesn’t have the time to work on.

For many years, you dream of a different and better life, to have more time for yourself and grow to be a better person. Finally, the moment is here and you feel so lost so dispossessed that you risk missing what you wish for.

I remember I was writing the letter confirming the day  I was to retire. when suddenly, memories that go back forty years suddenly came back to me…. Its four in the afternoon , school is out, God bless vacations! its the month of June, and to clearly indicate the beginning of summer , the sun is shinning brightly. Students, have just finished there classes they’re exited, free, happy, and relieved that school is over. Its the  beginning of  the summer vacations.

Remember the feeling of freedom at the beginning of the summer holidays. We all saw this period of our lives in the same way,  a time of pleasure, of fun, and adventure.

I was still a kid, I had barely finished my third grade, when this reality hit me: Summer holidays will always end. September will always return.

I was preparing my retirement when all this jogged my memory. For the first time of my life, I was facing this new possibility, this time the summer vacations may not end.

Surprisingly I realized for the first time, September would be back, as usual. But me, I would never return in this place where I’ve worked for so many years. Others would replace me, and life will go on.

We often see retirement as a time of pleasure, of rest and the ultimate fulfillment of a life. But truthfully, you must prepare your retirement, plan it so you become familiar with it, this way you’ll live it better. Retirement has its requirements. You must know them to cope with them. What I mean is, this part of your life needs for you to have a vision, an open mind, because, reality is not always what we believe it to be.

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3 Comments

  1. Posted November 15, 2008 at 8:25 pm | Permalink

    The article is nice – and your website too – I wish you had the social network icons or a shareme – so I could do that easily – did I miss seeing that?

  2. Posted November 16, 2008 at 2:26 am | Permalink

    I like the way you remember the feeling of FREEDOM. Though it is endless summer now, I would say keep remain the feeling of freedom as it is endless feeling too.

    We need retirement plan. Absolutely right. However, we can draw a new plan every minute to live our remaining life joyful. Life is too short if we have big dream.

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  3. Posted November 17, 2008 at 5:07 pm | Permalink

    I absolutely agree that the next phase of life is best when planned well. However, that word has got to go. Retirement. It has a terrible connotation and isn’t truly accurate anymore.

    Over 80% of baby boomers say that don’t plan to retire in the traditional sense. We’re retooling the concept of golden years into a time when, yes, there are endless summer days, and those days are filled with excitement over new adventures, businesses, relationships.

    It’s a heady, yet scary feeling to know you have 30+ years to ‘play with’. I’m writing about my own transition on my blog. My ‘retirement’ is earlier than most and less than my choice, which makes it fraught with dilemmas and challenges for me and my marriage. Happily, there are also surprises like the glee I feel in creating my own best life from scratch.

    When I get frustrated, because I do, I recall a quote by Rainer Maria Rilke. It sits right next to my desk for inspiration.

    Be patient. Unresolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves.

    Thanks for reminding me to love the journey!

    Dina

    Dina Lynch Eisenberg
    http://www.thismarriagething.com

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